The
biggest, grandest, most traditional American holiday just passed us by - Thanksgiving. For all non-Americans, it is mind baffling how this can be so important! Not
only as a family get-together but the traditions and food of it all. There has
to be this special stuffing on the table or that kind of sweet potato pie and
there definitely needs to be a football game going on in the background to veg
out in front of while digesting the turkey.
I have
come to love Thanksgiving – after having left the United States. Not so much
for the food, which can be comforty for sure, but for the nice atmosphere of
hanging out with friends, cooking together, eating, drinking and eating some
more… and I’m not the only non-American who has grown to appreciate this
holiday. This is exactly the wonderful thing that expats around the world share
– an appreciation for different holidays. And it’s not only because it is a
reason to party…
Now for
my American partner in cooking crime; Thanksgiving is the favorite holiday of
the year. It is an opportunity to spend time with good friends and enjoy
traditional, familiar comfort food without the pressure of gifts or the chaos
of most other holidays. First, long
hours are spent together in the kitchen and then, watching sports, going on
walks to make room for dessert, playing games and just enjoying the company of
loved ones. And of course, giving thanks
for the bounty before us and what is to come in the months and years
ahead.
This year
the STARA team hosted Thanksgiving for friends from all around the world –
China, Australia, Denmark, Spain, Austria, England and, of course, Sweden and
the US. There were complete newbies alongside with seasoned Thanksgivingers who
need it to just so, like it always is. With such a large number of guests a potluck
was the way to go so that everyone feels like they are involved and creating
their own traditions. There was one really big bird of course, potatoes of
different kinds, stuffing (this was the year I actually liked it), cranberry
sauce, side vegetables, gravy, at least three different desserts and definitely
good times.
With so
many from so many places, you can’t get too specific on what to bring – and
that is part of the fun. When Stacey
lived in Switzerland, every year they went to a large Thanksgiving dinner –
about 400 people. Everyone was asked to
bring a side dish. The fun though was
guessing where everyone came from by the dish they brought. Those from the Southwest had cornbread and
chorizo stuffing, but if you are from
New England, its wild rice and oysters all the way! There are always stories about the history of
the dish – an old family recipe from a great grandparent or mom’s famous sweet
potato pie – something to remind us of those far away.
But
sharing these dishes and their stories always brings us closer together. They remind us of all that we have to be
thankful for. While we may not be with
our “real” families on this holiday, we are with those who love us wherever we
are - making new memories, traditions and stories to share next year.
Happy
Thanksgiving and Happy Holidays!